What happens to great loves

You see a person and get attracted suddenly without even knowing that person. You think that this is the person you will spend rest of your life. You fantasize how happy you will be, what things you will do together in the future. You start planning in your imaginary world. You start knowing that person. Things confirms that you right with your intuitions.  

You cannot spend a second without that person. You miss him or her. You want that person to be back from work or wherever they are at to come back to you soon. Time seems not passing by without them. You want to what is happening in their life , how they are when they are away from you. You tell that person to let you know whatever happens, or if she or he needs you to call you and let you know. Yeah you are superman.
Than along the way something happens. You start fighting over something, accusing each other. You and other say keeps saying that "you do not understand me", " you do not see my point of view". What happened to feelings once you felt? Now you have the opposite feelings you hate that person. You do not want to see that person anymore.

This is a great movie (Roses War) about how relations starts and how it ends.

[Chorus - Rihanna]
just gonna stand there and watch me burn
that’s alright because i like the way it hurts
just gonna stand there and hear me cry
that’s alright because i love the way you lie
i love the way you lie

[Eminem - Verse 1]
i can’t tell you what it really is
i can only tell you what it feels like
and right now it’s a steel knife in my windpipe
i can’t breathe but i still fight while i can fight
as long as the wrong feels right it’s like i’m in flight
high off of love drunk from my hate
it’s like i’m huffin’ paint and i love it the more i suffer, i suffocate
and right before i’m about to drown, she resuscitates me, she fuckin’ hates me
and i love it, wait, where you goin’?
i’m leavin’ you, no you ain’t come back
we’re runnin’ right back, here we go again
so insane, cause when it’s goin’ good its goin’ great
i’m superman with the wind in his back, she’s Lois Lane
but when its bad its awful, i feel so ashamed i snap
whose that dude? i don’t even know his name
i laid hands on her
i never stoop so low again
i guess i don’t know my own strength

[chorus]

[Eminem - Verse 2]
you ever love somebody so much you can barely breathe
when you with em you meet and neither one of you even know what hit em
got that warm fuzzy feeling
yeah them chills used to get em
now you’re getting fuckin’ sick of lookin’ at em
you swore you’d never hit em, never do nothin’ to hurt em
now you’re in each other’s face spewin’ venom in your words when you spit em
you push pull each other’s hair
scratch claw hit em throw em down pin em
so lost in the moments when you’re in em
it’s the face that’s the culprit, controls ya both,
so they say it’s best to go your seperate ways
guess that they don’t know ya
http://www.elyricsworld.com/love_the_way_you_lie_lyrics_eminem.html
cause today that was yesterday
yesterday is over, it’s a different day
sound like broken records playin’ over
but you promised her next time you’ll show restraint
you don’t get another chance
life is no nintendo game, but you lied again,
now you get to watch her leave out the window
guess that’s why they call it window pane

[Chorus]

[Eminem - Verse 3]
now i know we said things, did things, that we didn’t mean
and we fall back into the same patterns, same routine
but your temper’s just as bad as mine is, you’re the same as me
when it comes to love you’re just as blinded
baby please come back, it wasn’t you, baby it was me
maybe our relationship isn’t as crazy as it seems
maybe that’s what happens when a tornado meets a volcano
all i know is i love you too much to walk away though
come inside, pick up the bags off the sidewalk
don’t you hear sincerity in my voice when i talk?
told you this is my fault, look me in the eyeball
next time i’m pissed ill aim my fist at the drywall
next time there won’t be no next time
i apologize even though i know its lies
i’m tired of the games i just want her back
i know i’m a liar if she ever tries to fuckin’ leave again
i’ma tie her to the bed and set this house on fire

Why I do not want to write a blog.

In our class ( Marketing via new media) at UCSD we were assigned to write blogs by our instructor Rebecca Carroll. It is really great assignment to learn and get the habit of doing it. I know and am aware of many benefits of writing a blog both from business and personal aspects. ..

But I also have many excuses not to write a blog. Or in another word many reasons why I do not want to write.Blog writing takes time and thinking over what will be written. There are tons of subjects in our daily lives to be written. You can write about any subject you want. I am not short on subjects, I am short on time.  First excuse I have no time to write a blog. I work over 60 hours in a week. And rest of my time blocked for exercise and to spend time with my wife who already complaints about my working hours.  

First I need to think which requires lots of time. It is not as easy as it sounds. First I have to  think then put them on writings.During thinking process there are lots of questions i need to ask myself such as what do i want to say? How will i say that in detail? How can i convey my message to readers? Afterwards you need to revise it to make sure everything is correct. During revising you may find some mistakes or want to change some updates. Imagine how much time i will spend on that. Writing a blog consumes lots of time.